You don’t fake it till you make it.
Anything involving you being “fake” will turn people away from you. We’re all sick of fake and people that are not authentic. Vulnerable is in fashion and is the new black.
We’re all just “winging it.”
I know you think that person who’s the CEO is successful but the truth is they’re just winging it. They don’t have all the answers. The truth is none of us really know what we’re doing.
We keep the L Plates on for our entire life. We’re always learning and no one has all the wisdom or knowledge that’s available. So instead of trying to be perfect, learn to wing it like the people you look up to as “successful.”
You should value your time more than you do.
You procrastinate more than you realize. Your not so smartphone is the new form of procrastination. You tell yourself that looking at your phone is work, but it’s not. Your phone wastes your time and you’re fooling yourself if you think otherwise.
Time is what allows you to think and make smart decisions. Time is where your dreams can be created and it’s how you start a side hustle. If you have a 9-5, time is also what you need to escape and start your own thing. Stop wasting your time!
Saying no is the discipline you need.
There’s no point having goals if you say yes to every Joe Blow that comes your way wanting your precious time for their own project. Learn to say no. Only say yes if it feels good in the moment; otherwise, you’ll end up with too many priorities and not enough time to work on your dream.
No will give you space. Yes will exhaust you.
You really shouldn’t have “just one more.”
The phrase “just one more” is the sign to stop. It’s never just one more. Stop lying to yourself homie and understand that giving in to temptation hurts your success big time.
You don’t need one more beer to numb your life.
You don’t need one more episode of that TV show to numb your life.
Enough is enough. No more.
You’re not that much of a big deal.
I know it’s easy to believe you’re a big deal – especially now with the power social media gives us all. The truth is you’re not a big deal and neither am I. We’re all human and kind of the same. Turning the dial down on your ego will make you more sociable. People want to know someone who is interested in them and not just themselves.
Your job title is not that cool.
Your car is meaningless in the scheme of things.
Your Gucci sunglasses aren’t impressing anyone.
Finding your unique value is a moment of awakening.
The day you discover how you can bring value to the world, is the day everything changes. Spend as much time as you can discovering what your value proposition is. In simple terms: How can you help us all? What do you know that we do not? What problem can you solve?
My day came when I realized I could inspire people through blogging. I want your day to arrive. Be patient and it will.
Honesty is super sexy.
Exaggeration has become the new lying. Talking things up all the time is tiring. When you stretch the truth or lie, you’ll get found out – eventually. So now you know, there’s no point. Tell the truth because it’s easy. You’ll never be lost for words. Tell the truth through your experience.
Honesty leads to effective communication and that’s what we all suck at. Problems stem from a lack of clarity and many of us make assumptions about stuff we have no clue about. Make the decision to become sexy through honesty. Hubba Hubba!
We all have our own problems.
That’s why I don’t have time to be focused on yours. So, therefore, no one’s thinking for more than a second about the fact you messed up. Now you’re free. You can make mistakes and have the piece of mind that no one is going to remember what you did wrong.
We’re all toddlers at heart trying to explore the world and find what’s true and what’s not. We’re all trying to find the meaning of life and that will come through taking huge risks with no understanding of what might occur. Next time you stuff up that speech, remember it’s all gravy.
Your idea of success changes over time.
When you’re 18, you’ll think having a car is success. When you’re 25, you’ll think graduating university is success. When you finish university, you’ll think getting a corporate job is success. When you hit your 30’s, you’ll think owning a home and having a family is success.
When you hit 50, you’ll think seeing your kids grow up to fend for themselves is success. When you’re 65, you’ll think retirement is success. When you’re 70 plus, you’ll think just being alive is success. Your vision for success changes based on your age. Learn what true success is at the youngest possible age and your life will get better.
Success is living your purpose.
Success is finding a way to give to others.
Success is finding and understanding love.
Success is being grateful instead of being pissed off.
Success is seeing the world for its infinite positivity.
Saying WTF is making you sound dumb.
Really dumb. Acronyms are for lazy people who are going nowhere. Don’t use them.
Doing what you say you’re going to do is a superpower.
Ever been promised something and then not received it? The next time that same person promises something, do you believe them? No, you don’t. Doing what you say you’re going to do is a superpower because no one does it.
Rather than over promising, set lower expectations. Then when you deliver, you’ll find people are over the moon when really they shouldn’t be. Try it. It works.
We all have to build something.
A life. A business. A family. A romantic relationship. A house. If you’re not building, then you’re not growing. Things that don’t grow die (like many of the people you meet who are alive, but dead inside).
You don’t work as hard as you think.
Yep that’s another lie you tell yourself. Most of us don’t know what hard work is. We do one hour of emails and then take a break to watch something on YouTube to reward ourselves. Hard work is going ten hours with nothing but a glass of water in front of you.
Put the hours in.
Do the extra reps.
Work your butt off.
Then your hard work will translate into something special.
You also don’t take a break as often as you should.
Almost sounds like a contradiction – it’s not. Working hard is important but so is taking a break a few times a year. If you don’t recharge your mind through travel, you’ll become comfortable and bored. This is the worst feeling in the universe.
Quitting is sometimes necessary and really hard to do.
Do it regardless.
Quit if you hate it.
Quit if you’ve had enough.
Stop talking and start doing. You don’t have to “put up” with anything if you don’t want to. Stop being so soft. Quitting leads to opportunities.
Being you is attractive to the opposite sex.
The opposite sex is only interested in your “washboard abs,” car, money or clothes for maybe a split second. The truth is being you without all of that fakeness layered on top that impresses nobody is the game you want to play. Being you and being authentic is attractive because it’s so rare.
Subtract rather than add.
If you’ve missed your goals, it’s because you need to subtract more. Focus comes from subtracting, not adding more things to that stupid to-do list that makes you feel like a failure.
Subtracting gives you time back in your day to reallocate towards the goals that you care about.
Less is more. Minimalism is funky.
Show me your Ferrari and I’ll show you what really matters.
How you feel is what you want. That’s the only reason you’d buy a chunk of red metal to feel differently. Nothing wrong with Ferrari’s, but let’s focus on making you feel incredible instead.
Who am I?
Ask this question to yourself a lot.
Self-reflection brings the answers you’ve been seeking. These answers will steer you down the right path and stop you becoming incongruent.
Being nice for the sake of it is rare.
So be nicer for no reason if you want to stand out and make people smile.
Smiles take your life up a notch.
Your neighbor is not that fly.
They look successful. They tell you they’re successful. They throw big parties with all of their friends to appear successful. Whether they truly are, you’ll probably never know. That’s a good outcome because you don’t have time to think about your neighbor. You’ve got your own party to prepare for called “life.”
Don’t tell us, show us.
Talk is cheap amigo. Most people can talk a head off a chicken. Stop telling and start showing through action.
Action, Action, Action. More success comes from action.
Pat yourself on the back when you fail.
That’s right. Enjoy it! That’s another lesson you can reflect on and share with others. That failure forms part of how you can help others and create value. I think you should celebrate again. Shall we?
It’s not who you are; it’s who you become.
Don’t worry about who you are right now. Yes, there may be some cracks and that’s fine and dandy. The truth is that who you are becoming is the most important way to step up to the next level of your life. You’ve got to start somewhere so about where you are right now?
Enough reading this blog post. Trust yourself and the unlimited potential you have. Time for action.